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The art of seduction

The art of seduction….by our brand ambassador Massimo Stocchi Fontana, accredited sex coach and psychological therapist. Seduction is a topic that has fascinated people across cultures for hundreds of years. When we think of the great seducers we are drawn the Casanovas and Marylin Munroe’s of the world. We have an uncontrollable attraction to such

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A Dating Coach’s 4 Biggest Secrets To Connecting With Anyone

Whether you’re dating online or IRL, the world is a playing ground for creating connection – when you know these four secrets People often ask me how I’m so good at connecting with people, (aka why am I so flirtatious!?). The truth is, I’m good at dating because, in my old career in PR, I

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How To Attract The Right Person For You

I adopt a no BS approach to finding true fulfilment in relationships. If you’re tired of the same old (sexist) dating “advice” out there, and can’t bear another boring date or shallow sexual encounter, then this blog is for you.  When it comes to sex, love, dating and relationships, are you ready to finally feel

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5 Ways To Boost Your Emotional IQ For More Connected Relationships

Knowing how to improve emotional intelligence will help you in every area of life, especially when it comes to dating and romance. And the good news is that it’s not something you’re simply born with, but a skill that recent studies have shown can be learned. To be classified as emotionally intelligent, the first thing

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Love in Lockdown: 5 Epic Lessons From a Year Of Distanced Dating

Here’s my rundown of the dating trends I’ve seen this year; what’s in and what’s out! Take a look for more on how to create the deep connection and fulfilling partnership you want in 2021, whether you’re currently single or coupled.  1. Fantasy is OUT Real connection is IN When it comes to dating in

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How Sexual Assertiveness Will Bring You The Meaningful Connections You Crave

Tell me what you want, what you really, really want! By communicating your desires assertively you can transform your sex life to be more trusting, honest, imaginative and fun, says dating and relationship coach and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav. For the majority of us, talking about the intricacies of our sexual desires is unfamiliar territory.

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5 Signs You’re Sexually Compatible

Dating and relationship coach and matchmaker, Asa Baav, is all about helping people find a partner they’re compatible with – in and out of the bedroom. So what is sexual compatibility? And how can you tell if you’re a good match? Here are Asa’s five surefire ways to tell if your sex life – and

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Sexual Negotiation: What Happens When You Have Different Desires?

What do you do when you aren’t on the same page as your lover about your sexual values, ideas and preferences? I hear the same complaint from my clients over and over again: their exes simply didn’t know how to get them off or they were reluctant to experiment sexually.  Do you know what else

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What We Can Learn From Tantric Sex

Tantra offers a whole new (ancient) way of being in sexual connection, that allows for deeper levels of feeling, sensation, and suuuper pleasurable energy. In this months blog we share our four big lessons from Tantra to supercharge your sex life. As a dating and relationship coach, I get asked about Tantra A LOT by

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A Guide to Edging for Extra Intense Orgasms

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens we are this month talking about edging. Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life, with self-pleasure the best way to explore what turns you

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5 ways to avoid losing yourself when you fall in love

If you find that you quickly lose your sense of self in the arms of another, allow me to help you make your way back to you. Because healthy romantic relationships start with a healthy relationship with yourself. “Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for

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Awakening Your Female Sexual Powers

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your female sexual powers this months blog. The outdated masculine model of sexuality focused on performance in bed is OUT. Sex that values pussy power and female pleasure is most definitely IN, says the sexpert of the dating industry and founder of Tailor Matched

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How To Talk About Sex + Pleasure: 3 Lessons From The Kink Community

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your what we can learn from the Kink community in this months blog. Despite popular myths, kink isn’t all about whips and chains, but rather how openly you’re willing to talk about the sex you’re having, says the sexpert of the dating industry Asa

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Sexy and delicious food inspiration

Ok so you can’t leave the house for drinks at the bar, but you very much can indulge in a little digital date via the magic of Zoom, Skype or FaceTime.  Why not make dinner together? We have teamed up with Sunil Pithwa for some sexy and delicious inspiration. Sunil is a passionate home cook who loves cooking

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8 Ways To Make Online Dating Work For You In The Age Of Coronavirus

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How do we persevere with dating as the global pandemic turns our lives upside down? Use quarantine as an opportunity to to relearn how to date and discover how to have sex without touching. Here’s my guide to online dating during the Coronavirus. 1. Be creative! Who were you before Convid-19 and who do you

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Why sexual compatibility matters

I often hear people say, “but, I don’t have an extreme fetish, I am quite vanilla in bed. Can I still sign up?” YES YOU CAN! This is EXACTLY why it is important we talk about just that – sexual compatibility. Data from the British National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, indicates one in four UK couples are imbalanced in

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What can BDSM teach us about healthy relationships?

It’s a common misconception that those who dabble in BDSM and kink have all kinds of issues, one of which being unhealthy relationships, both with themselves and others, but this couldn’t be farther from the truth. However, it’s no surprise that society has stereotyped BDSM like this, especially with the media portraying kink in such

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The Guide to Power Play

Do you enjoy the thought of giving or receiving orders in the bedroom? Perhaps it really turns you on to hear your partner tell you exactly how they want you, or seeing your partner surrender to your command creates a burning desire in you that you can’t quite explain? Here our KINK ambassador Sarah Butcher

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This Is How NOT To End Up In The Friend Zone

Feel like you’re doing everything “right” but still aren’t getting the second date? Love and dating aren’t about strategy, so if you don’t want to end up in the “Friend Zone”, it’s time to learn how to create your own spark. What is “The Friend Zone”? You might think of “The Friend Zone” as that

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The blueprint for a happy, successful online dating life

Lots of people really struggle with online dating, often blaming dating apps for the emotional rollercoaster that it sends them on. Imagine if you could approach online dating as an exciting adventure instead says Saskia Nelson, founder of dating photography agency Hey Saturday. In this blog Saskia shares the blueprint for a happy, successful online

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An introduction to erotic hypnosis

Hypnosis allows you to enrich your sensations and your experience of pleasure by engaging all of you in the process. We have teamed up with Jonam Ross, an Erotic Hypnotist, who works around the globe combining cutting edge behavioral science and hypnosis with studies into unlocking the mysteries of your sensual mind and infusing relationships

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Coming Soon: The Podcast

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