Blog & Podcast

How Sexual Assertiveness Will Bring You The Meaningful Connections You Crave

Tell me what you want, what you really, really want! By communicating your desires assertively you can transform your sex life to be more trusting, honest, imaginative and fun, says dating and relationship coach and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav. For the majority of us, talking about the intricacies of our sexual desires is unfamiliar territory.

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Why Is Vulnerability So Attractive To Women?

We need to talk about harnessing the power of vulnerability – it could be the difference between developing an honest, open and long-lasting relationship, or staying single. In my experience as a dating coach, matchmaker (and woman), a man who can embrace the risk of being emotionally vulnerable, is a man we all want on

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5 Signs You’re Sexually Compatible

Dating and relationship coach and matchmaker, Asa Baav, is all about helping people find a partner they’re compatible with – in and out of the bedroom. So what is sexual compatibility? And how can you tell if you’re a good match? Here are Asa’s five surefire ways to tell if your sex life – and

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Sexual Negotiation: What Happens When You Have Different Desires?

What do you do when you aren’t on the same page as your lover about your sexual values, ideas and preferences? I hear the same complaint from my clients over and over again: their exes simply didn’t know how to get them off or they were reluctant to experiment sexually.  Do you know what else

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What We Can Learn From Tantric Sex

Tantra offers a whole new (ancient) way of being in sexual connection, that allows for deeper levels of feeling, sensation, and suuuper pleasurable energy. In this months blog we share our four big lessons from Tantra to supercharge your sex life. As a dating and relationship coach, I get asked about Tantra A LOT by

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A Guide to Edging for Extra Intense Orgasms

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens we are this month talking about edging. Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life, with self-pleasure the best way to explore what turns you

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Coming Soon: The Podcast

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