Blog & Podcast

A Guide to Edging for Extra Intense Orgasms

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens we are this month talking about edging. Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life, with self-pleasure the best way to explore what turns you

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5 ways to avoid losing yourself when you fall in love

If you find that you quickly lose your sense of self in the arms of another, allow me to help you make your way back to you. Because healthy romantic relationships start with a healthy relationship with yourself. “Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for

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Awakening Your Female Sexual Powers

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your female sexual powers this months blog. The outdated masculine model of sexuality focused on performance in bed is OUT. Sex that values pussy power and female pleasure is most definitely IN, says the sexpert of the dating industry and founder of Tailor Matched

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How To Talk About Sex + Pleasure: 3 Lessons From The Kink Community

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your what we can learn from the Kink community in this months blog. Despite popular myths, kink isn’t all about whips and chains, but rather how openly you’re willing to talk about the sex you’re having, says the sexpert of the dating industry Asa

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Sexy and delicious food inspiration

Ok so you can’t leave the house for drinks at the bar, but you very much can indulge in a little digital date via the magic of Zoom, Skype or FaceTime.  Why not make dinner together? We have teamed up with Sunil Pithwa for some sexy and delicious inspiration. Sunil is a passionate home cook who loves cooking

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8 Ways To Make Online Dating Work For You In The Age Of Coronavirus


How do we persevere with dating as the global pandemic turns our lives upside down? Use quarantine as an opportunity to to relearn how to date and discover how to have sex without touching. Here’s my guide to online dating during the Coronavirus. 1. Be creative! Who were you before Convid-19 and who do you

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Attachment styles and how you might be sabotaging in relationships

If you find dating and relationships baffling and can’t understand why it’s so hard to find (and keep) love, discovering your attachment style may be the missing piece of the puzzle If you’ve ever felt suffocated by someone you’ve just started dating, felt desperate for affection from your lover, or like you and your partner

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Coming Soon: The Podcast

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