dating

A Guide to Edging for Extra Intense Orgasms

As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens we are this month talking about edging. Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life, with self-pleasure the best way to explore what turns you

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Why sexual compatibility matters

I often hear people say, “but, I don’t have an extreme fetish, I am quite vanilla in bed. Can I still sign up?” YES YOU CAN! This is EXACTLY why it is important we talk about just that – sexual compatibility. Data from the British National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, indicates one in four UK couples are imbalanced in

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What it’s really like to date in your late 30s

Google ‘dating in your 30s’ and you’re in for a fright. From “aching ovaries” to “sad single-dads”, “emotional baggage” and even that it’s like “sifting through garbage” it’s enough to put you off finding love completely. I call BS. Consider this your permission slip to ignore the internet fear-mongering. I work with men and women

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7 Simple Ways To Stay Safe On A Date

If there’s one thing guaranteed to cloud your judgement on a first date, it’s lust. When your date is super hot and flirty, it’s easy to forget that you’ve only just met them. So I’ve put together my top tips for staying safe on a first date. Following these 7 simple tips will protect you

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How to get started with dirty talk

As a dating coach and matchmaker, my mission is to help you say goodbye to shame about your sexual desires. Talking in an erotic way activates the imagination, is a hige turn-on (when done right) and can liberate your sexual inhibitions. So if you’ve ever been tempted to talk dirty but held back, this week’s

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