How do you tell if someone online is worth investing your time in? Especially given that it might be a while before you can really put your feelings to the test together? Dating in 2020 has been, er, interesting to say the least. Even though I am all about the IRL connection and forging deeply
Whether you are a few dates in or are in the exciting early phase of dating, overthinking and over-analyzing can create a lot of unnecessary drama. Here’s how to stop overthinking and enjoy the pleasure of the present moment instead. Hands up if you ever find yourself analyzing every date, every text message, every phone
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens, Tailor Matched founder Asa Baav discovers whether three is a crowd, or the secret to true happiness in this month’s blog As a dating and relationship coach, this subject has been coming up more and more in conversations with clients and friends. In a city like London, with
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens we are this month talking about edging. Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life, with self-pleasure the best way to explore what turns you
If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s how to get comfortable with uncertainty (or be anxious 24/7). Yet we are hardwired to resist the unknown, especially when it comes to dating. In this blog, we’ll learn how to use uncertainty to stop serial-dating and find lasting love. Something I often hear from coaching clients is
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your deepest desires in this months blog. The world of dating has changed dramatically in even the last 5 years. The advent of a gazillion dating apps, more liberal attitudes to sexuality, and a more fluid society generally means our choices have
I often hear people say, “but, I don’t have an extreme fetish, I am quite vanilla in bed. Can I still sign up?” YES YOU CAN! This is EXACTLY why it is important we talk about just that – sexual compatibility. Data from the British National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, indicates one in four UK couples are imbalanced in
Google ‘dating in your 30s’ and you’re in for a fright. From “aching ovaries” to “sad single-dads”, “emotional baggage” and even that it’s like “sifting through garbage” it’s enough to put you off finding love completely. I call BS. Consider this your permission slip to ignore the internet fear-mongering. I work with men and women
If there’s one thing guaranteed to cloud your judgement on a first date, it’s lust. When your date is super hot and flirty, it’s easy to forget that you’ve only just met them. So I’ve put together my top tips for staying safe on a first date. Following these 7 simple tips will protect you
Reason #99765 I love offline dating: there’s no room for phoniness and fake photos. Dating IRL is the perfect way to bring your REAL self to the dating game. Allow me to show you how with my top 5 tips for being the true you on that scary first date. Ahhh the first date. Is
