How do you tell if someone online is worth investing your time in? Especially given that it might be a while before you can really put your feelings to the test together? Dating in 2020 has been, er, interesting to say the least. Even though I am all about the IRL connection and forging deeply
Whether you are a few dates in or are in the exciting early phase of dating, overthinking and over-analyzing can create a lot of unnecessary drama. Here’s how to stop overthinking and enjoy the pleasure of the present moment instead. Hands up if you ever find yourself analyzing every date, every text message, every phone
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens, Tailor Matched founder Asa Baav discovers whether three is a crowd, or the secret to true happiness in this month’s blog As a dating and relationship coach, this subject has been coming up more and more in conversations with clients and friends. In a city like London, with
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens we are this month talking about edging. Think you know everything there is to know about masturbation? Think again! Dating coach, matchmaker and founder of Tailor Matched, Asa Baav says experimentation is essential for a healthy sex life, with self-pleasure the best way to explore what turns you
If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s how to get comfortable with uncertainty (or be anxious 24/7). Yet we are hardwired to resist the unknown, especially when it comes to dating. In this blog, we’ll learn how to use uncertainty to stop serial-dating and find lasting love. Something I often hear from coaching clients is
As a monthly contributor to Killing Kittens our founder Asa Baav dives into your deepest desires in this months blog. The world of dating has changed dramatically in even the last 5 years. The advent of a gazillion dating apps, more liberal attitudes to sexuality, and a more fluid society generally means our choices have
How do we persevere with dating as the global pandemic turns our lives upside down? Use quarantine as an opportunity to to relearn how to date and discover how to have sex without touching. Here’s my guide to online dating during the Coronavirus. 1. Be creative! Who were you before Convid-19 and who do you
I often hear people say, “but, I don’t have an extreme fetish, I am quite vanilla in bed. Can I still sign up?” YES YOU CAN! This is EXACTLY why it is important we talk about just that – sexual compatibility. Data from the British National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, indicates one in four UK couples are imbalanced in
There’s no doubt about it: sobriety has earned a new kind of cool. If you’re tired of hangovers and drunken sex, maybe now is the time to join the growing numbers of people going sober as the wellness and lifestyle choice. You must have noticed people all over London shunning nights out at the local
Yes, there are those rare occasions when you and your lover go from cold to very, very hot in 60 seconds, but let’s be real – rushing is rarely a good idea if you really want to get the juices flowing. So if you want mind-blowing sex, let’s get you acquainted with the anatomy of
