How do you tell if someone online is worth investing your time in? Especially given that it might be a while before you can really put your feelings to the test together? Dating in 2020 has been, er, interesting to say the least. Even though I am all about the IRL connection and forging deeply
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How To Stop Overthinking Everything While Dating
Whether you are a few dates in or are in the exciting early phase of dating, overthinking and over-analyzing can create a lot of unnecessary drama. Here’s how to stop overthinking and enjoy the pleasure of the present moment instead. Hands up if you ever find yourself analyzing every date, every text message, every phone
What ‘You Me Her’ can teach us about getting our needs met
Finally TV is exploring what it’s like to date outside the bounds of traditional monogamy. Whether you love the Netflix show or have never even heard of You Me Her, my latest blog considers if three’s a crowd, or the secret to true happiness. You Me Her tells the story of Jack and Emma Trakarsky,
Online Dating is Killing Romance
How do we find love in the digital age? Simple: delete the dating apps on your phone. Find out why online dating is ruining your love life – and what to do instead. Ahhh, romance. That sweet, sweet feeling you get when they even so much as glance at you with their perfect eyes. There
How to own what you want
If I had a pound for every time I heard ‘but Asa, I don’t know what I want’ – I would be a very rich woman. In this week’s blog I’m delving into how to figure out what you want in a partner – and get it. So you want a new love BUT you
Can eye-contact make you fall in love?
If eyes really are the window to the soul, can gazing into them help speed up a soul-to-soul connection? I take a look at the scientific evidence to find out how to harness the eyes to find new love. As a dating coach, I’m always thrilled when I hear ‘their eyes’ in answer to the
It’s ok to… be scared of finding love
You say you want love, but when it comes knocking, your defenses go straight up. Sound familiar? It’s ok to be scared of finding love, but your fears could be stopping you from having the relationship you deserve. Read on for 4 big reasons why you might be scared of finding love. 1. YOU FEEL
What Fleabag can teach us about attraction
Fleabag is no more and, if you’re anything like me, you are completely bereft. Here’s my take on the BBC show that seemed to be about sex (but was about so much more) and what it can teach us about the messy business of attraction. What a journey we’ve been on throughout two series
Can the 5 love languages really help your love life?
According to relationship counsellor Gary D. Chapman, we could all be better partners if we familiarised ourselves with the five “love languages”. When it comes to dating, does speaking your lover’s language really matter? What’s your love language? It may have been written way back in 1992, but the popularity of a book called The